A Perspective Shift for Greater Understanding
Hello Lovely,
I have recently come to the conclusion that sometimes the problem is not unmet expectations.
I used to talk a lot about expectations.
I used to think they were a bad thing and something that we should stop participating in.
But lately, I have come to see the whole thing differently.
It seems to me that a lot of stress and conflict is caused in a relationship when the woman has “expectations” that are not met by her man.
And yes, we can see how that could cause problems.
What if there is another way to see this scenario?
In my work with the Divine Feminines of the world, a lot of the time, my work is to bring in a perspective shift for the feminine. I provide a shift from disempowering (limiting/shame-based) thoughts and patterns to empowering thoughts, energies, and cycles. The goal is to empower women to keep their hearts open and connected to God.
The word expectations is loaded with negative connotations and shame, so today I want to shift that. My intention here is to create a point of greater understanding and connection between the Divine Feminine and her Divine Masculine.
Also, in my work with Divine Feminines, it is becoming more and more clear to me what our Divine Purpose is.
And while there are many shades of gray on the subject of individual soul purpose, the bottom line is this…
We are here to heal the world.
Now, the subject of healing is a deep and complex topic, and I am not getting into that today, but I will say this…
For the feminine to heal the world, she must see and speak to the higher self of her man.
She must believe that he can actually achieve the higher man that she can see and feel with her heart.
She must trust that her heart is telling her the truth about her man.
This is a level of blind faith that is terrifying and a huge risk.
So when a man “doesn’t meet her expectations”, what is actually happening is that she believed in him with all her heart to show up as the higher man and he did not. He chose to remain small and in the lesser self.
That is heartbreak. That is disappointment for a Divine Feminine. (You may like to read, “What the World Needs to Know About A Deeply Feminine Woman.”)
This is then a crucial moment for the feminine. This is going to trigger her and she may enter her lower self and lash out at the man in criticism.
She may even end the relationship because she is tired of participating in a cycle of trusting and believing in her man and then him consistently not showing up.
Or she may chose to stay and pull away to heal her broken heart. She is not intentionally withholding love. She is literally soothing and healing her broken heart so that she does not take it out on the one she loves and is committed to.
Her heart is literally broken and she feels like a fool for trusting her heart.
Sometimes the problem is not unmet expectations. The problem is unmet Truth.
It is these shifts into greater awareness that make healthier, more understanding and more connected relationships.
The Divine Feminine is on the side of the Divine Masculine. She sees his Truth and deeply desires to see him live it.
The question is, is he going to chose his Truth?
Suze
