Before I Enter My New Beginning...
Hello Lovely,
In looking back over my life, I felt led to write a love letter to my younger self.
My soul signed up for a wild ride, this time around, and I currently feel like I am expanding into a new phase of my journey.
So before I move into the next chapter of my life, I wanted to acknowledge what I have been through and the wisdom that I have gained from it all.
Each stage of our journey deserves our full attention to the end, and I believe it is important to intentionally close out one phase/cycle before we can fully move on and embrace the next.
Enough of that, let’s get into my love letter to my younger self…
The prize is not the marriage, the kids, or the stuff. YOU are the prize.
Take your time getting to know yourself—your strengths, your weaknesses, and why you are the way you are.
Notice and reframe thoughts that are self-shaming or non self-accepting.
Learn how to love being alone.
Become an expert in relaxing your nervous system and being very gentle with yourself.
Revel in the abundance that is all around you.
Prioritize your needs and become intimate with the way your body communicates with you.
Know that you are wasting your precious energy by explaining or defending yourself to people who do not have the capacity to see or hear you.
Notice the people or things that make you feel rushed and choose to slow down and move at your own pace.
Catch yourself when you think you need to do something to prove your worth and stop yourself immediately.
Wait for the man who is clear, consistent, and active towards you from the moment he meets you.
Wait for the man who values real over “perfect”.
Wait for the man who patiently waits for you when you are working through the hardest times of your life.
Wait for the man who’s voice calms and steadies you and who’s chest is the safest place on earth.
Wait for the man who supports your unconventional dreams and believes in your ability to bring them to life.
Wait for the man who thinks you’re more beautiful without your makeup on.
Wait for the man who puts you on the inside of the sidewalk and always holds your hand.
Wait for the man who can be spontaneous with you and who loves to laugh with you.
Wait for the man who heals you with his desire.
Wait for the man who holds you every night as you fall asleep.
Wait for the man who knows YOU are the prize and shows you that he knows it.
You are loved.
You are supported.
You are safe.
Everything is going to be ok.
That is my love letter to my younger self. Take what resonates with you.
If you are ready to dive deeper into your personal expansion journey, click the link below to learn more and connect with me.
Suze