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The Greatest Provision A Masculine Can Provide His Feminine

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Hello Lovely,
The greatest provision is a masculine can provide his feminine is not money. 

Provision is the second purpose of the Divine Masculine. The first purpose is protection, and by that, I do not mean physical protection. To read that first foundational blog in Divine Partnerships, read “The Greatest Protection A Masculine Can Provide His Feminine.”

The second purpose, as mentioned above, is provision for his Divine Feminine. Again, this is usually taken to mean the human, physical manifestation (money), instead of realizing the deeper, energetic Truth.

Like it or not, the truth is that the Divine Masculine keeps his focus on his deeper (and far more freeing) purpose of protection and provision, and not on the shallow, physical representations of much money he can make or what status he can reach. Don’t get me wrong, I believe living abundantly is a good thing, but  focusing exclusively and obsessively on this superficiality and external validation leads to overworking, and depletes him to the extent that he cannot PROVIDE the ENERGY that she needs from him. His energy is depleted and his life is out of balance.  Money is simply a physical representation of provision. But going deeper into energies, provision is ENERGY.

The Divine Feminine lives intuitively and energetically manifests her life, so money is not the most important provision for her heart.

What kind of energetic provision does she actually desire? Sexual provision (healing and connection), presence, consciousness, consistency, integrity, safety, stability, and Love.

Masculine GIVES. Feminine RECEIVES.

Not only does she receive, she expands, because that is the nature of feminine energy.

Provide her with the energetic fulfillment her heart craves, and she will radiate even more love, peace, softness, and safety back to you.

Provide her with self-serving egotistical decisions and actions, and she will mirror back darkness, destruction,  and chaos.

She can be your greatest muse

Or

Your worst nightmare.

Choose your provisions wisely.

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All my love to the Divine Partnerships,

Suze

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The Greatest Protection A Masculine Can Provide His Feminine

Moving Beyond the Self

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Hello Lovely,
The greatest protection a masculine can provide his feminine is protection from his ego.

The distorted masculine tries to find validation, self worth, and fulfillment in money, sex, accomplishments, etc. Sooner or later, he is going to realize that these things only temporarily satisfy him and that he cannot find true fulfillment in these shallow things.

The Divine Masculine finds self worth in his purpose—the protection of and provision for his Divine Feminine.

But I do not simply mean physical protection, as most seem to believe. That is only the physical manifestation of a deeper spiritual Truth.

The Divine Masculine protects the heart of his feminine. This means protecting her from his ego, because when he reacts to her from ego, her heart is smashed into a million pieces. She believed in him and his King/Emperor self, and he chose the pauper self.

This literally feels like heart break for the Divine Feminine. (This can also be cross-referenced by reading “The Problem is Not Unmet Expectations”.)

The Divine Masculine recognizes that he needs to protect her heart, so that she may keep her heart open. And he naturally wants her heart to be open, because when her heart is open, she is soft, and receptive to him. Not only that, but her open heart is a portal for her intuitive gifts and connection to God. Clearly this is something to be protected!!

If he does not protect her heart from his egoic self, she will be  tempted to shut her heart to him. This disconnection is experienced as heart break for the Masculine, because she will appear cold, shut down, and maybe even angry.

The greatest protection a masculine can provide is protection from his ego, because it is the greatest sacrifice to be asked of any man. But it is his duty, if he is to expect her to keep her heart open to him.

This is the new paradigm in partnership and relationships because it releases us from toxic power struggles.

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All my love to the Divine Partnerships,

Suze

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A Woman Knows How to Love, but Not Who to Love

Moving Beyond the Self

a woman knows how to love, but not who to love

Hello Lovely,

I have heard it said, “Women know how to love, but not who to love. Men know who to love, but not how to love”

It’s complicated.

Because it always seems to be complicated when it comes to issues of the heart, love, and relationships, doesn’t it?

Women tend to have a “soft spot” for the man that needs love and healing.  The nurturer inside pulls us to love the other, and the womanly vision picks up on potential.

And as with everything, there is a shadow aspect and a light aspect…

The shadow…

A woman finds herself in relationships with men that need healing and love, and she tries to “fix” them in an effort to feel worthiness inside herself. She has not learned how to simply receive love, so there is a belief that she needs to “earn” love. This fuels the constant “efforting” in the relationship to prove herself worthy of receiving whatever little breadcrumbs of love that she can from the wounded man. This can show up as mothering, enabling, fixing. This woman is controlling, manipulative, critical, and is rigid, tense, and “cold” in her body.

The Light…

This woman has been working on her self love journey and in her light, she attracts in a partnership that meets her right where she is at. But as the relationship deepens and time passes, the wounds of both rise up, triggering and rupturing the relationship. This can also be even more complicated when the woman continues to grow, and the man appears to be growing at a “slower” rate, so misalignment happens frequently, and distresses the woman. She questions the relationship and often receives pressure from friends/outside sources that she should leave the relationship.

To the second woman, in her Light…

What if the journey here is to learn how to deepen the love to a terrifying new depth of intimacy?

What if the next step for expansion is to choose to stay when it often feels like it would be easier to just leave and attract in a new man, at your new level?

What if choosing to keep your heart open is the next opportunity for growth?

What if you could extend your radical healing to your partner?

This feels risky because it is an unfamiliar space, and definitely outside our comfort zones.

So I would like to rephrase “A woman knows how to love” to say that the woman who knows how to Love in the highest sense takes what she has learned with her own self love journey and offers it to her Beloved with humility, grace, and forgiveness, so that he may learn how to Love.

Then, together, they heal the world with their Love.

This is Divine Love.

This is the calling from the heart of the Divine Feminine.

She will know this to be true because her heart always longs for connection. Her heart always opens to her Beloved, and she cannot ignore it.

She knows this to be true because her intuition shows her the vision of what could be. And when she embodies her goddess self and speaks to his god self, her Beloved steps forward towards her, closing the gap between them, and igniting her fire for more connection.

Relationships are not going to heal until we fully commit to them and choose to open our hearts daily to our Love.

Relationships can continue to grow and evolve together, and we don’t have to keep getting stuck in cycles of thinking we have to leave because we have “outgrown” our parter.

The self love journey starts as a focus on the self, but then can turn narcissistic if the Love is not expanded beyond the self to heal the world. 

To be continued…

All my love to the Divine Partnerships,

Suze

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