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Feel Desired, Safe, & Valued

Hello, Lovely,
The theme lately in my clients is dating, and getting really clear on recognizing when a man wants a woman. But not just any woman–when a man wants YOU.

It is exciting to work with women who are re-entering the dating world, and this time, they are determined to do it all differently.

The kind of woman that I work with doesn’t just want a relationship.

She wants a growing, thriving, deeply intimate connection.

She wants to feel emotionally safe to be fully open, fully expressed, fully seen.

I have already said, many times, that the key here is observing how consistent a man is showing up. But it goes deeper than this sounds…

What we truly desire, is a man who is totally and completely present with us.

A man who is fully present with us makes us feel adored, seen, important, valued, desired.

His presence HOLDS the space for us to flow in all that we are—the emotional waves, the insecurities, the highs and the lows.

This is what creates the feeling of safety—we know that we have a safe harbor, no matter what. (This is the path to true intimacy too, but more on that later).

But here is where the rubber meets the road…

How does the man make his presence felt when he is NOT physically present?

A man who TRULY values you and really wants YOU will make sure you FEEL his presence at all times.

He does not leave any space for another man to enter.

He CLAIMS his space in your life.

This is all energetic. You will recognize it when you feel it.

Wait for it.

This is the foundation that a masculine builds, knowing that it will give his feminine the safety that she needs to open fully to him.

The depth of the connection that is possible between a masculine and his feminine is mind-blowing. I have chills, as I am typing about it.

Wait for it.

Slow down.

Feel.

If you are ready for deep support and guidance on your empowerment journey, I am accepting invitations from new clients for 1:1 coaching with me.

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Lovingly,
Suze

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Having the Dynamic You Want

Hello, Lovely,
To continue my series on “foundations for conscious connections”, today I’m sharing 3 things to know when dating a masculine.

Let me be clear. I’m talking about a very specific kind of masculine. Please read my article “The Wounded Masculine & The Awakened Masculine”

With this kind of masculine energy, things are going to be different than relationships of your past. This kind of man has most likely done some level of inner work/awareness/healing/personal growth.

He is most likely going to be more in tune with your energy and emotions because he is aware and emotionally available to himself.

So here are my 3 things to know when dating a masculine…

You can relax. If you have had past relationship experiences like mine, you probably were the one who made the relationship work. You were the one who made the decisions, fixed the problems, and figured out all the stuff. You “did all the things.” This is no longer going to work. The more relaxed you are, the more attractive you are going to be to him. Feminine energy is very relaxed, soft, and open. Let him do what he thinks is best and let that be an indicator of where he is in his life. Let him show you if he is worthy of you or not. You can relax. This may feel weird at first, because it’s different than how you have done things in the past, but once you start to really feel how much pressure this takes off you, you will love it.
You must be good at receiving. This can actually be harder than you may think, if you used to be the kind of woman that I spoke about in point #1. A masculine man finds great happiness in giving to you. Start to be on the look-out for all the ways he may be attempting to give to you. Allow yourself to receive his efforts and simply say, “Thank you!” This will also encourage more of this behavior from him, which will make you feel really important and valued.
You are safe to be emotionally vulnerable. In fact, the more you are, the better. You may have heard me speak this before…to create connection, the feminine must be emotionally vulnerable first to create safety for the masculine to be emotionally vulnerable. This then circles back around to the feminine and she feels deeply connected in the relationship because the masculine is being emotionally available to her.

This is integration of masculine and feminine energies to create a truly spectacular relationship that will grow a bond that creates lasting loyalty and commitment.

If you found value in this article, you may also enjoy “5 Things To Do When You Are Dating”.

And for more on living your life by embodying your feminine energy, click the link below.

May you have the Love of a lifetime.

Sincerely Yours,
Suze

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