awakened masculine Archives - Inhale Love with Suze

Having the Dynamic You Want

Hello, Lovely,
To continue my series on “foundations for conscious connections”, today I’m sharing 3 things to know when dating a masculine.

Let me be clear. I’m talking about a very specific kind of masculine. Please read my article “The Wounded Masculine & The Awakened Masculine”

With this kind of masculine energy, things are going to be different than relationships of your past. This kind of man has most likely done some level of inner work/awareness/healing/personal growth.

He is most likely going to be more in tune with your energy and emotions because he is aware and emotionally available to himself.

So here are my 3 things to know when dating a masculine…

You can relax. If you have had past relationship experiences like mine, you probably were the one who made the relationship work. You were the one who made the decisions, fixed the problems, and figured out all the stuff. You “did all the things.” This is no longer going to work. The more relaxed you are, the more attractive you are going to be to him. Feminine energy is very relaxed, soft, and open. Let him do what he thinks is best and let that be an indicator of where he is in his life. Let him show you if he is worthy of you or not. You can relax. This may feel weird at first, because it’s different than how you have done things in the past, but once you start to really feel how much pressure this takes off you, you will love it.
You must be good at receiving. This can actually be harder than you may think, if you used to be the kind of woman that I spoke about in point #1. A masculine man finds great happiness in giving to you. Start to be on the look-out for all the ways he may be attempting to give to you. Allow yourself to receive his efforts and simply say, “Thank you!” This will also encourage more of this behavior from him, which will make you feel really important and valued.
You are safe to be emotionally vulnerable. In fact, the more you are, the better. You may have heard me speak this before…to create connection, the feminine must be emotionally vulnerable first to create safety for the masculine to be emotionally vulnerable. This then circles back around to the feminine and she feels deeply connected in the relationship because the masculine is being emotionally available to her.

This is integration of masculine and feminine energies to create a truly spectacular relationship that will grow a bond that creates lasting loyalty and commitment.

If you found value in this article, you may also enjoy “5 Things To Do When You Are Dating”.

And for more on living your life by embodying your feminine energy, click the link below.

May you have the Love of a lifetime.

Sincerely Yours,
Suze

Love Your Life With Feminine Energy

Choose Love

Sign Up For Emails

Foundations for Conscious Partnerships

Hello, Lovely,
Today I am taking a break from feminine energy and am writing about the wounded masculine & the awakened masculine. I have been noticing that there is hunger from women for men who are more masculine.

In all my work with energies, there is a distinct difference between the wounded masculine & the awakened masculine, and I feel that it is very important to define the two so that there is a deeper understanding around my coaching in conscious partnerships, and healing/creating the relationship that you want.

The wounded masculine is the masculine who has not done his inner work, and is not in a growth/healing mindset. He has completely shut down/ignores his feminine energy. He is not emotionally available, ungrounded, overbearing, controlling, and “wishy-washy” (sometimes referred to as “little boy energy”). He is often stuck in people-pleasing, needing external validation, and narcissism. It is impossible to create deep connection and intimacy with such a man, because an awakened/aware woman can FEEL that she cannot trust his energy. He cannot hold her strong emotional energy.

The awakened masculine is the masculine who is “growing up.” He has gotten vulnerable with himself and is “in touch” with his feminine energy, and lives by creating balance between his own masculine and feminine energies. Because he has acknowledged his feminine energy, he is able to emotionally connect, vulnerably communicate, and be gentle with his partner. At the same time, he balances this with his masculine energy, which empowers him to be firm, supportive, grounded, strong, and decisive. He is able to lead with integrity, vision, and love. He has clarity on what is important to HIM, and what he wants. Once he sees what he wants, he will do whatever it takes to have the object of his desire. To an awakened woman, she feels incredibly safe in his energy. She is able to trust him to lead and she is able to relax and soften in her feminine flow, which feels completely liberating.He provides consistency and stability, energetically, that gives his woman the safety to surrender to their love.

The depth of her love inspires him to keep growing and expanding in his masculinity and authenticity.

The wounded masculine & the awakened masculine feel very, very different to a woman who is energetically sensitive. I have experienced both in my life, and I am deeply grateful to be in a partnership with an awakened masculine now.

The relationship that your heart desires IS possible, and starting with your own inner growth is the first step. I invite you to click on the link below to read more about my coaching or contact me for guidance on manifesting the man/relationship that you crave.

Sincerely Yours,
Suze

Learn More about My Feminine Energy Coaching

Find Your Love