Epic Love Has Epic Sex

Hello Lovely,
Epic love has epic sex. Let’s go behind that thought…

Sex feels good. 

Sex literally brings people together.

Sex is physical connection.

So why are we not having more sex with the one we love?

Why are we not accepting offers of sex from the one we love?

Why are we denying sex? (which is denying ourselves and our partner pleasure and connection)

What are we trying to control, by denying sex?

Where is the shame coming from?

What is the fear? Fear of intimacy.

We all have wounds around emotional intimacy in our past—emotional neglect, shaming, invalidation, rejection, humiliation, betrayal, etc…

So choosing to be emotionally intimate can feel terrifying.

Emotional intimacy is messy, because, hello, we are talking emotions, and messy triggers control issues.

Emotional intimacy is choosing to be vulnerable, emotionally naked, with a totally open heart.

Emotional intimacy is choosing to see into the other so deeply so that you can love them better.

It is focusing on service to the growth and deepening of the partnership—NOT the self. It is literally death of self protection to be able to protect the partnership.

If there are fears around emotional intimacy, it will manifest in sex, because sex is the physical manifestation of the energy of emotional intimacy—-total connection, nakedness, and openness.

There is no physical hiding in sex.

Just like there is no emotional hiding in intimacy.

Epic Love has Epic Sex.

But Epic Sex requires Epic Emotional Intimacy.

What’s holding you back from that?

And to read more on this Epic Love Story, you may like to reference,  “What Epic Love Requires.”

Also, “Epic Love”.

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-heart space to reveal your Epic Love Story. 

Suze