Moving Beyond the Self
Hello Lovely,
The greatest protection a masculine can provide his feminine is protection from his ego.
The distorted masculine tries to find validation, self worth, and fulfillment in money, sex, accomplishments, etc. Sooner or later, he is going to realize that these things only temporarily satisfy him and that he cannot find true fulfillment in these shallow things.
The Divine Masculine finds self worth in his purpose—the protection of and provision for his Divine Feminine.
But I do not simply mean physical protection, as most seem to believe. That is only the physical manifestation of a deeper spiritual Truth.
The Divine Masculine protects the heart of his feminine. This means protecting her from his ego, because when he reacts to her from ego, her heart is smashed into a million pieces. She believed in him and his King/Emperor self, and he chose the pauper self.
This literally feels like heart break for the Divine Feminine. (This can also be cross-referenced by reading “The Problem is Not Unmet Expectations”.)
The Divine Masculine recognizes that he needs to protect her heart, so that she may keep her heart open. And he naturally wants her heart to be open, because when her heart is open, she is soft, and receptive to him. Not only that, but her open heart is a portal for her intuitive gifts and connection to God. Clearly this is something to be protected!!
If he does not protect her heart from his egoic self, she will be tempted to shut her heart to him. This disconnection is experienced as heart break for the Masculine, because she will appear cold, shut down, and maybe even angry.
The greatest protection a masculine can provide is protection from his ego, because it is the greatest sacrifice to be asked of any man. But it is his duty, if he is to expect her to keep her heart open to him.
This is the new paradigm in partnership and relationships because it releases us from toxic power struggles.
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Suze