When Letting Go Of A Relationship, Know This

Hello, Lovely,
When letting go of a relationship, know this…your heart and love is your most valuable asset.

In my own journey, and in working with women, I have been along for the ride with women who have decided to let go.

My heart has ached with the struggle that comes with deciding to end a marriage, or long term relationship. I remember the absolute agony and internal torture that I put myself through for years, before I finally declared it was over. I just couldn’t seem to let go until I had “tried everything I could think of, to make it work.” 

When I did finally let go, and was stepping into the separation and divorce process, I used to say something that I have heard other women say–“I wish I had done it sooner.” When I said this, it was with an underlying energy of being disappointed in myself, and “wasting” my time in staying for as long as I did. 

But recently, I have turned that disempowering perspective into empowering, and it is my desire to now share that with other women who share a similar story to mine. 

When letting go of a relationship, know this…

That little voice inside you that won’t let you let go until you have “tried everything possible” is your heart. Notice how fiercely it fights. Pay attention to how it is willing to torture itself for years before it is willing to give up. Our love as women is insanely powerful, enduring, and fierce, to the point of nearly killing itself.

That is a power that is to be respected. 

That is a power that is to be valued.

Notice the fight that you are willing to put up for your relationship. Take a moment to reflect. 

Turn this reflection into realizing the incredible value of your heart and love.

And next time around, choose very wisely who you give your heart to. 

Your love is to be earned with consistent effort and respect that shows it is highly valued. 

Next time around, choose wisely. Your heart deserves it. 

Sincerely Yours,
Suze