Seeing Behind the Obvious
Hello, Lovely,
The truth behind the ending of relationships started to become clear to me a few years back.
I was at the very end of my marriage, and seeing all of it with fresh perspective, due to what I was learning about masculine and feminine energies.
What I realized gave me closure, and affected how I see and coach on relationships from then on.
The truth behind the ending of relationships is that there is an event that causes a shift in energy, that, over time, erodes the relationship to the point where we finally walk away.
Often unconsciously, women usually enter into a relationship in a more feminine state of being. We are open to a man’s love, in whatever way the man tends to demonstrate love. Over time, we trust the man, to a certain extent, and start to rely on him to give us that thing that we think we need from him—money, love, stability, acceptance, etc.
We expect this to keep on going, until one day, something happens and the man does not respond in the way that we expect him to. Our sense of safety and stability is threatened and we start to question if this guy can actually take care of us in the way that we thought we could depend on him to.
Now there is trust lost.
We feel scared and now shift into masculine energy.
We must protect our hearts. We must defend. So, we shut down.
From here, it is usually a series of events where the couple becomes more and more disconnected from each other, and the woman goes further into her masculine. She either learns to build a life that really has no use for him any longer, or she stays shut down in victim mode, and keeps him at arm’s distance.
This is ultimately, the end of the relationship.
The good news is that once we are aware of the truth behind the ending of relationships, now we can feel empowered to choose what we want to do about it all.
I found incredible healing, growth, and empowerment in embodying my feminine energy, and this changed everything for me in relationships going forward.
I invite you to click on the link below to learn more about my feminine energy coaching.
And I would love to hear your story.
Sincerely Yours,
Suze