Femininity Is Power

Hello, Lovely,
It’s been a long and twisted journey, but it has all led me to realize that femininity is power. And for anyone who knows my story, it’s crazy to think that this is where I have landed. 

I grew up in an unusual situation that led to be be an extreme self-reliant. 

I trusted no one, often came across as “too much” or “too blunt”. I never asked for anything from anyone, and instead, expected the world from myself. I pushed and hustled and made my life happen, all by myself. I always found a way to solve my problems, without any outside help. 

I developed extraordinary skills of reading people and then bringing out the version of me that I knew they needed to see, in order for my survival and acceptance. 

I prided myself on my “poker face”–I could be having an absolute internal emotional apocalypse and NO ONE would ever know. 

Until one day, I realized I wasn’t able to create connections–real, meaningful connections. 

I felt deeply sad, misunderstood, and rejected because deep inside myself, I knew that I wanted to feel feminine, and my life had taught me that I couldn’t be that because it is “soft”. 

My life from those days to present day is drastically different. I have learned that being in my femininity is power. 

My highest power.

Being “soft” and feeling my emotions can be extremely powerful because in the end, I always get to choose which direction I want to take. 

I can use my emotions as a tool for guidance to find the path that my soul wants me to take. 

I can use my emotions to deeply connect and have the fulfilling relationships that my heart desires. 

I can use my emotions to respect myself and my truth to create boundaries and feel high self worth. (See my Love Letter “The Irony of Self Worth”.)

I can use my emotions to vulnerably communicate and inspire others to rise to their higher selves. 

I can use my emotions to know if someone/something is right for me or not. 

I can use my emotions to make decisions that empower me, instead of self sabotaging.

I can use my emotions to validate myself, instead of looking for external validation. 

I can use my emotions to free myself from negative and limiting ideas around food.

It is in learning to create safety for myself to see and feel all my emotions that I learned to finally trust myself to create a life that is authentic, instead of needing to hide behind my “poker face” or my people-pleasing chameleon. 

The bottom line is this–I have never felt more strong, more confident, more powerful, more clear, more connected, more calm, and more knowing as I do now that I embrace the fact that femininity is power.(See my Love Letter, “How Can Feminine Energy Coaching Help Me?”)

Femininity allows you to radiate your truth, your value, and your highest self from your heart. 

To read more of my story and learn more about how I got here, I invite you to click the link below. 

And, as always, I would love to hear your story. Reach out when you feel led. 

Sincerely Yours,
Suze