You Don't Even Know What You Want
Hello, Lovely,
Ever wonder why you don’t have what you want?
It occurred to me the other day as I was writing an email (you can sign up for emails below), that the #1 issue I see with women is all the same root issue.
Women have no idea what they actually want.
I get it. I didn’t know that this was really my problem at first, either.
Here’s the deal. Women are shown all day long, everyday “what they want”. Women are marketed to endlessly and women are emotionally pressured into cultural ideals. Women are told what we want AND even worse, we are being told our wants in a way that forces us to tap into masculine energy, which only creates more confusion, dissatisfaction, frustration, disconnection. This clearly takes away all our power.
How can you feel powerful when you feel confused and uncertain?
How can you feel knowing when you feel frustrated?
How can you feel confident when you feel dissatisfied?
I have said it this way before–when I started waking up to my life and realizing how empty it felt, I felt like I was living someone else’s life. I had followed someone else’s ideals, and priorities, and NOT MINE.
Knowing what you want is a multi-layered process.
First, you must give yourself the time and space to really, really see and accept yourself. You must love and accept it ALL–the good, the bad, the ugly (and the weird, as my boyfriend says). Let it all be seen. Let it all out. Notice all that is happening inside you, day in and day out.
Second, from this very open vulnerable, and emotionally available place, you can feel safe with yourself. You can trust yourself to try new things. You must be more curious about how things actually FEEL to you, than be afraid of what you will look like, or what someone might think.
Third, from here, you will start to see the world through energy. The physical things that your physical eyes see will be irrelevant. You will feel energy. You will know what you want by energy or how it makes you feel–NOT by the human standards/perspectives.
The bottom line is this…
You will never have what you want, because you don’t even know what you want.
If you would like to learn more of this process and walk with me, step-by-step, click on the link below to learn more about my upcoming class “Be Your Own Ultimate Lover”.
It is my desire that you choose to finally know once and for all why you don’t have what you want, and take the time to love yourself, so that you can FEEL what you want.
It is so worth it.
Sincerely Yours,
Suze