Foundations for Conscious Relationships
Hello, Lovely,
To have the relationship you want, you must first choose from the two types of love in this world.
The first is the most common…human “love”. We meet someone, we are attracted to them on some level, and we “fall in love.” We go through the usual stages, and after the “honeymoon phase”, the “love” starts to lose its shine. Each person takes on a role, and habits and expectations start to form around these roles. The “love” shifts to a place of “I will love you, as long as you show up in this particular way, and maintain the status quo.” Clearly, this is conditional love, which actually is not Love at all.
The second Love is found by those who are willing to walk the uncommon path. We have run into our inner darkness, looked it straight in the eyes and have come out on the other side in deep self awareness, acceptance, and Love. When two people come together in Love from this level of awareness, the partnership is completely different. The attraction at first sight is a pull from deep inside, and a calm, comfortable, “I recognize you” is felt. The couple goes through the “honeymoon phase”, but then the deeper purpose of this partnership is soon apparent—more healing, growth, and awareness. The wounds of each other trigger the other and if they choose work together, they develop incredible understanding of the other, acceptance of the other, with endless communication. Together, they communicate what they want, where they are going, what they are collaboratively creating. They see each other at their worst, and choose to stand by their side. The Love here is, “I will not leave, no matter what, because I Love you”. This is unconditional Love. This is sacred Love. This is soul love. The bond that is created here is like two old war buddies— they have been to war together, holding each other up, watching each other’s back, never turning away, and never leaving the other behind. The trust, acceptance, and loyalty here is profound and leads to a bliss that is far greater than any “honeymoon stage”.
This is Love.
Choose your love wisely.
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Warmly,
Suze
