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Queen Energy

Taking Your Power Back

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For those of you who are on my email list, you know that I have been touching on Queen Energy. (If you do not receive my emails, and would like to, please sign up below!)
 
I absolutely LOVE talking about queen energy, as I feel that it is the first step in reclaiming your power and sense of self worth.
 
It is also the first step out of codependency or victim-mindset. 
 
It is the energy that we must keep coming back to, over and over again, when life feels hard and stressful. 
 
It is the energy that will free you when you feel “stuck”. 
 
Queen energy is clearly a big deal! 
 
How do we access it?
 
You must first to willing to take responsibility for your life and what it currently looks like. Be honest with yourself about what is going on in your life. 
 
What do you like?
 
What do you wish was different?
 
The purpose of these questions is so that you finally allow yourself to SEE the honest state of affairs in your life. You cannot change something that you aren’t even aware exists!
 
From this seat of seeing, imagine you are sitting on a throne. You are allowing all the people of your kingdom to come before your throne and offer up their complaints to you. You are accepting and listening with compassion to them all. You want to help them, so you are listening to everything they have to say, so that you fully understand what is happening in your kingdom.
 
You hold all the power to change what is happening in your kingdom.
 
Now that you know what is going on, you can ACCEPT the current state of affairs. Imagine that you just recently re-claimed your throne as queen. Imagine that previously, you were not able to be on your throne, and so now that you are back on the throne, you must accept what has happened in your absence. 
 
You must accept whatever is going on in your kingdom (your current life situations).
 
Acceptance is step one in queen energy.
 
Next, you decide that YOU are going to take charge of making some changes.
 
No one is going to do it for you. You are going to make the changes.
 
Decide what needs to change. Allow yourself to create a vision for yourself of the life that you want to have. 
 
With this vision, promise yourself (hold yourself accountable) to doing 1 little thing each day, that makes you feel like you are getting closer and closer to your vision. 
 
Be patient with the process. 
 
Turn your negative thoughts into self empowerment thoughts.
 
Look for opportunities where you can choose to do or respond differently than you have in the past. 
 
Remember that you cannot have a different result, if you do not try a different process. 
 
As long as YOU are deciding what happens and YOU are consciously and actively choosing the things in your life, you are learning to be in your Queen Energy.
 
You are learning to trust yourself, and you should be very proud of yourself for this.
 
As women, we have been programmed to NOT trust ourselves, so this is very deep work. 
 
If you would like to learn more about learning to trust yourself, you may appreciate my Love Letter (blog) “What Is My Intuition?”
 
You are the Queen of your life.
 
You get to decide at any moment how you are going to feel.
 
You get to decide how you are going to respond to anything in your life.
 
You get to decide what you will allow and what you will not allow in your kingdom (life).
 
You know who you are.
 
You know what you are.
 
You know how you serve. 
 
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What is Divine Feminine?

Divine Feminine Is The Real You

What Is Divine Feminine

Hello, Lovely,
I see you, over there, quietly and curiously asking, “What is Divine Feminine?” and I am so thrilled that you are wondering about it. 

This terminology came across my path years ago, as I was heavily peeling back the layers of myself. I had come to the painful realization that I was living a life that looked exactly “right”, and yet it did not bring me the happiness or satisfaction that I had been led to believe would be found there.  Something was wrong with my life, and I felt like I didn’t even know who I was anymore, but I was very clear about one thing–I was going to find out who I am. 

Finding out who I actually am turned into a very interesting road with many unexpected turns and many lessons to be learned. It felt like I was burning everything to the ground, so that I could rebuild something that felt real, authentic, and meaningful. I needed to feel alive in my life, instead of drowning in Groundhog Day. 

What I have learned is this–The Divine Feminine is the higher self. It is the state of being that is achieved when one takes massive responsibility for themselves and their life, heals their wounds, starts aligning with their soul, and strives to maintain a healthy balance of their feminine and masculine energies. 

The Divine Feminine refuses to settle, lives unapologetically, is unafraid to create boundaries, is clear and unwavering in her decisions, trusts her intuition, has released co-dependency and/or people pleasing, feels whole and complete on her own, speaks her Truth, and is a warrior of Love. She lives by embracing her inner queen, goddess, and warrior. 

In romantic relationships, the Divine Feminine seeks to attract in her Divine Masculine–sometimes called soulmate, or divine counterpart. She will not settle for a relationship that does not feel aligned with her, or that will not rise with her. If she is already in a relationship, her mission is to inspire her partner to rise into his masculinity. She leans back into her feminine energy, to draw out the masculine in her partner. She vulnerably communicates her needs and desires for the relationship to feel the deep emotional connection and safety that her heart craves. She knows that in accomplishing this, both partners win. Both have their needs met and feel seen, heard, accepted, loved, and supported. They are able to create a connection that is sacred and protected. He holds a safe, grounded place for her to be free, to flow, to connect, and create. 

The Divine Feminine is needed more than ever today. She is able to heal this world and create a better future. 

In my journey to my Divine Feminine Self, I have come to realize that it is my purpose to help women step into this powerful, confident, and authentic state of being. 

I would love to hear your story of what brought you here to this place of wondering, “What is Divine Feminine?” 

And I would love to help guide you in awakening her and her powers. 

If this sounds like something of interest to you, please clink on the link below for Divine Feminine Coaching options.

Sincerely Yours,
Suze

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What Is Feminine Energy?

Feminine Energy Sets You Free

what is feminine energy

Hello, Lovely,
Have you ever asked yourself, “What is feminine energy?” Over the past few years, I have seen a shift in women’s empowerment. We are getting sick of feeling exhausted, stressed out, and unfulfilled. I have also witnessed how remembering our feminine essence is setting women free, and empowering them to create lives that feel authentic, connected, and satisfying. 

So what is this feminine energy that is starting to get attention everywhere? 

Feminine energy feels light, free, flowing, open, and receptive. It does not force, hustle, push, or “make it happen.” It is open to multiple possibilities, instead of focused on one specific, exact plan of action.  

Feminine energy is life force, creative energy. Without it, creativity cannot exist. Take a moment to realize how powerful that is. If we can embrace our power of creation, that means we can bring anything to life. We can literally make something out of “nothing.” We can creatively solve problems, we can creatively build the lives that feel really, really good and aligned to us, and we can creatively nurture our relationships to be deeply connected, passionate, and intimate. 

Feminine energy is feeling, emotional, sensual, and flows like waves. Many of us have been misled into thinking that these are “negative” qualities and we have spent years denying and pushing aside this aspect of ourselves. We have been taught that this makes us “weak”, or in some way, unattractive. I am here to tell the world that the opposite is actually the truth. Our power as women lies in embracing our emotions and feelings, and then learning how to turn all that energy into our power. It is very upsetting to me how we have only been shown how emotions can destroy us, and not been shown how to utilize all the energy into massive self empowerment. The most powerful version of you is ALL of you. 

Feminine energy is connection. This is where I have seen a lot of women coming to big revelations in their lives. We cannot keep silencing the cry inside that is begging for deeper connection in our relationships. We want to feel like our lives have meaning and purpose. We crave to feel fully seen, heard, and loved. Functional, yet only superficial relationships are no longer acceptable. Feminine energy is the only path to access all of this. We cannot have the relationships we desire until we learn to be really vulnerable with ourselves. We must learn to fully see, hear, and love ALL of ourselves first, to then go outside ourselves and create it with someone else. Feminine energy brings you into a deep connection with yourself, your life, and your relationships. It is our responsibility as women to create, nurture, and sustain connection in our relationships, but it is impossible to do this without feminine energy. 

Feminine energy is open and receptive. This is the power that attracts to us all that we desire. This is the power that inspires men to rise up into their healed masculinity, which in turn, makes us feel safe, important, and loved. This is what ultimately sets us free because we are able to simply BE, instead of running around, feeling like we have to DO everything, decide everything, and figure everything out, to make our worlds happen. This allows for a reality where we feel more calm, confident, and clear in our lives. We are living and flowing in our hearts and intuition, instead of creating chaos, turbulence, and exhaustion by living in our heads. 

Feminine energy is the force that sets you free to be who you really want to be and have the life that your heart desires.

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Sincerely Yours,
Suze

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