Foundations for Feminine Empowerment
Hello, Lovely,
The answer to “how to make a man to desire you” is really simple…you just have to desire yourself!!!
What exactly does that mean?
It’s really simple. If you don’t deeply desire to be with yourself, or you don’t deeply desire to take the time alone with yourself to really see and love all of you, how in the world can you expect someone else to?
And if you can’t reveal all the parts of you to yourself, how are you going to be able to reveal yourself to someone else and LET them really truly see and love you?
You cannot have the relationship you desire, until you learn how to have the relationship with yourself first!
You have to take the time to romance yourself. Love yourself. Accept yourself. Intimately know yourself!
It is so easy to distract ourselves with men that aren’t fully available or aren’t clearly and deeply desiring to be FULLY committed to us. There are plenty of those men around!
And if those are the kind of men that seem to be circling you, it simply means that you have not yet become fully available to yourself. I strongly recommend that you read my article “Am I In A Codependent Relationship?” to see if codependency is the role that you tend to take on in relationships.
You are hiding parts of yourself that you think are “unacceptable”. The parts that we label “too much” or “not enough” or “ugly”, or “dark”. You know what I mean!
Another challenge that I see with a lot of women here is that they have not taken the time to really sit and be with themselves to be REALLY clear about what they REALLY want.
As women, we have been programmed our whole lives about what our lives are “supposed” to look like, or if we achieve certain things, that those things will make us “happy”.
What you deeply desire is buried deep beneath all the propaganda that we have been fed our whole lives.
Take the time to know you, love you, desire ALL of you, and feel how to make a man desire you, by simply being you, the real you.
You may also find help and clarity by reading “What It Means To Be Whole”.
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Warmly,
Suze