Foundations for Conscious Partnerships
Hello, Lovely,
Today I am taking a break from feminine energy and am writing about the wounded masculine & the awakened masculine. I have been noticing that there is hunger from women for men who are more masculine.
In all my work with energies, there is a distinct difference between the wounded masculine & the awakened masculine, and I feel that it is very important to define the two so that there is a deeper understanding around my coaching in conscious partnerships, and healing/creating the relationship that you want.
The wounded masculine is the masculine who has not done his inner work, and is not in a growth/healing mindset. He has completely shut down/ignores his feminine energy. He is not emotionally available, ungrounded, overbearing, controlling, and “wishy-washy” (sometimes referred to as “little boy energy”). He is often stuck in people-pleasing, needing external validation, and narcissism. It is impossible to create deep connection and intimacy with such a man, because an awakened/aware woman can FEEL that she cannot trust his energy. He cannot hold her strong emotional energy.
The awakened masculine is the masculine who is “growing up.” He has gotten vulnerable with himself and is “in touch” with his feminine energy, and lives by creating balance between his own masculine and feminine energies. Because he has acknowledged his feminine energy, he is able to emotionally connect, vulnerably communicate, and be gentle with his partner. At the same time, he balances this with his masculine energy, which empowers him to be firm, supportive, grounded, strong, and decisive. He is able to lead with integrity, vision, and love. He has clarity on what is important to HIM, and what he wants. Once he sees what he wants, he will do whatever it takes to have the object of his desire. To an awakened woman, she feels incredibly safe in his energy. She is able to trust him to lead and she is able to relax and soften in her feminine flow, which feels completely liberating.He provides consistency and stability, energetically, that gives his woman the safety to surrender to their love.
The depth of her love inspires him to keep growing and expanding in his masculinity and authenticity.
The wounded masculine & the awakened masculine feel very, very different to a woman who is energetically sensitive. I have experienced both in my life, and I am deeply grateful to be in a partnership with an awakened masculine now.
The relationship that your heart desires IS possible, and starting with your own inner growth is the first step. I invite you to click on the link below to read more about my coaching or contact me for guidance on manifesting the man/relationship that you crave.
Sincerely Yours,
Suze