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Know Your Value

Hello, Lovely,
This Love Letter, “If He Wants You, He Will Come Get You”, is a little different than my others.

My intention with this Love Letter is to inspire and empower my goddess who are desiring more from their relationships. This may be hard to hear, but it is from Love. I usually write my Letters with the intention of informing and expanding consciousness, but this one feels different to me.

In my world, I hear a lot of stories from women. I see a lot of common themes for women, and relationships are being really emphasized for a lot of women right now. A lot of women are coming out of co-dependency and are growing into their higher selves (Divine Feminine).

Along that journey, we start to see our relationships with clearer vision because we finally have a higher sense of self worth and what we want.

Long story short, we want more.

More connection.

More passion.

More authenticity.

More growth.

More value.

We raise the bar of our expectations and often feel disappointed when it appears that our man cannot reach the new level that we feel is aligned with our new height of self awareness and self worth.

Here is where my message for today comes in…

If he wants you, he will come get you.

The man who truly SEES you, will value you as highly as you value yourself, and will do WHATEVER it takes to “come get you” and keep you.

If he doesn’t truly see you, he will not be capable of valuing you to the extent that he will figure out a way to “come get you” and keep you. He will not do enough for you to feel valued, seen, and deeply connected.

And that’s ok. You have simply outgrown him, and he is choosing to not grow with you. And that is completely his call.

Stop creating excuses for him. He simply is not capable, because he is no longer aligned with you.

You know who you are.

You know what you are.

You know what you want.

I have to say it one more time, so hopefully it will fully sink in…

If he wants you, he will come get you.

If he is not coming to get you, he is not for you.

It’s that simple. Stop doubting yourself.

If you would like guidance with building your self worth so that you free yourself from co-dependency, my feminine energy coaching can help…

I invite you to click on the link below to learn more.

And I would love to hear your story.

Sincerely Yours,
Suze

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Seeing Behind the Obvious

Hello, Lovely,
The truth behind the ending of relationships started to become clear to me a few years back.

I was at the very end of my marriage, and seeing all of it with fresh perspective, due to what I was learning about masculine and feminine energies.

What I realized gave me closure, and affected how I see and coach on relationships from then on.

The truth behind the ending of relationships is that there is an event that causes a shift in energy, that, over time, erodes the relationship to the point where we finally walk away.

Often unconsciously, women usually enter into a relationship in a more feminine state of being. We are open to a man’s love, in whatever way the man tends to demonstrate love. Over time, we trust the man, to a certain extent, and start to rely on him to give us that thing that we think we need from him—money, love, stability, acceptance, etc.

We expect this to keep on going, until one day, something happens and the man does not respond in the way that we expect him to. Our sense of safety and stability is threatened and we start to question if this guy can actually take care of us in the way that we thought we could depend on him to.

Now there is trust lost.

We feel scared and now shift into masculine energy.

We must protect our hearts. We must defend. So, we shut down.

From here, it is usually a series of events where the couple becomes more and more disconnected from each other, and the woman goes further into her masculine. She either learns to build a life that really has no use for him any longer, or she stays shut down in victim mode, and keeps him at arm’s distance.

This is ultimately, the end of the relationship.

The good news is that once we are aware of the truth behind the ending of relationships, now we can feel empowered to choose what we want to do about it all.

I found incredible healing, growth, and empowerment in embodying my feminine energy, and this changed everything for me in relationships going forward.

I invite you to click on the link below to learn more about my feminine energy coaching.

And I would love to hear your story.

Sincerely Yours,
Suze

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