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Hello, Lovely,
The answer to “how to make a man to desire you” is really simple…you just have to desire yourself!!!

What exactly does that mean?

It’s really simple. If you don’t deeply desire to be with yourself, or you don’t deeply desire to take the time alone with yourself to really see and love all of you, how in the world can you expect someone else to?

And if you can’t reveal all the parts of you to yourself, how are you going to be able to reveal yourself to someone else and LET them really truly see and love you?

You cannot have the relationship you desire, until you learn how to have the relationship with yourself first!

You have to take the time to romance yourself. Love yourself. Accept yourself. Intimately know yourself!

It is so easy to distract ourselves with men that aren’t fully available or aren’t clearly and deeply desiring to be FULLY committed to us. There are plenty of those men around!

And if those are the kind of men that seem to be circling you, it simply means that you have not yet become fully available to yourself. I strongly recommend that you read my article “Am I In A Codependent Relationship?” to see if codependency is the role that you tend to take on in relationships.

You are hiding parts of yourself that you think are “unacceptable”. The parts that we label “too much” or “not enough” or “ugly”, or “dark”. You know what I mean!

Another challenge that I see with a lot of women here is that they have not taken the time to really sit and be with themselves to be REALLY clear about what they REALLY want.

As women, we have been programmed our whole lives about what our lives are “supposed” to look like, or if we achieve certain things, that those things will make us “happy”.

What you deeply desire is buried deep beneath all the propaganda that we have been fed our whole lives.

Take the time to know you, love you, desire ALL of you, and feel how to make a man desire you, by simply being you, the real you.

You may also find help and clarity by reading “What It Means To Be Whole”.

For more on my story and my coaching, click the link below.

Warmly,
Suze

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Foundations for Feminine Empowerment

Hello, Lovely,
Women and desire is a subject that is really interesting to unravel. I plan on writing a few Love Letters on this subject, but for today, let’s create some awareness around women and desire.

When you understand women and desire, things become a lot simpler to understand when it comes to feminine and masculine energies in relationships.

Desire is a huge deal to a feminine.

Women don’t actually want attention, they want be desired.

Women don’t actually want sex, they want to feel desired.

Like I always say, it’s the thing behind the thing, that you want.

It’s the energetic FEELINGS that you want, not the physical things.

Women want to feel and be desired. It’s that simple.

If a man is “chasing” her, he is proving that he desires her.

If a man is calling, texting, and giving her attention, he is showing desire. She has captured his attention and he desires to get her attention.

Women like passionate sex because it makes her feel desired. She doesn’t want a man who acts unsure sexually. She wants him to take control, to be hungry, to show desire. (In a respectful way, of course.) On a deeper note, this is very masculine energy, so this is very attractive to a woman with a feminine core.

If you are wondering about your core energy, read my Love Letter, “What Is My Core Energy?”

I love to break these things down, because once you start to feel and live your life with energies, it becomes a lot easier to create the life you want.

The question is NOT “what do you want?” but rather, “how do you want to feel?”

Identifying energies makes it a lot easier to get to the root of what an authentic life looks like for you.

So when you think of women and desire from now on, recognize that this is a huge point of attraction for a woman with a feminine core energy.

If she consistently feels desired by her man, (and not just in a sexual way), she is able to relax into the relationship (trust), because she is will not be unsure/insecure about how he feels towards her.

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