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When We Can No Longer Avoid The Darkness of Feminine Energy

Radical Healing & Unapologetic Expansion

when we can no longer avoid the darkness of feminine energy

Hello Lovely,
For some of us, there comes a time when we can no longer avoid the darkness of feminine energy.

There comes a moment, when we simply can no longer keeping running from the overwhelming fear of repeating past cycles and pain, and we are forced to dive deep into the darkness that is the healing waters of feminine energy.

This is raw, “ugly”, deep healing.

This is way more than changing a belief or mindset.

This is experiencing pain, discovering all the parts of you that you have rejected or labeled as “unacceptable” and learning radical self acceptance. ( See  “The Capacity to Hold Space & Radical Self Acceptance”.)

This is seeing all the times you ran from the hurt, and this time, choosing to sit fully in the hurt, as long as it takes, until it is fully gone. (See also “A Time to Heal”)

This is self care and self love at a level that many are going to misunderstand and shame you.

This is slowing down to a crawl, so that your eyes are wide open to ALL that you are–scars and all.

This is YOU finally deciding who you are going to be and what your needs are that need to be met in order to get yourself there.  (You may like “When What You Want Is Not What You Need”)

This is what happens when we can no longer avoid the darkness of feminine energy.

In fully embracing your darkness, and who you have become because of those wounds, you become limitless.

Your sense of self worth skyrockets, because you sat in all the glory of your darkness, you spoke to all the beasts, and you calmed the raging storm. (“The Irony of Self Worth”)

You will not accept less than what you are worthy of.

You will have crystal clear clarity on your priorities, what is acceptable to you, and what is absolutely unacceptable to you.

You will not allow anyone to walk all over you again.

You will unapologetically declare your boundaries and take care of your needs.

You will also learn how to connect so deeply with those you love, because you chose to connect with all the previously rejected parts of you.

Your empathy will strengthen.

You compassion will deepen.

You will hold space for the “craziest” of emotions with ease.

It may be dark and painful, but it is so worth it.

It is when we can no longer avoid the darkness of feminine energy, it is then that we are able to finally access our highest power as women…healing.

You may also like to read “The Dark Side of Feminine Energy” and “The Truth About Shadows, Darkness, and Your Ego”.

If you are ready to dive deeper into your personal expansion journey, click the link below to learn more and connect with me.

Lovingly,

Suze

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When What You Want Is Not What You Need

More Radical Self Acceptance

when what you want is not what you need

Hello Lovely,
It is pretty easy to identify when what you want is not what you need, because it feels really confusing, annoying, disappointing, and sometimes shameful. 

What in the world am I talking about?

Along the path of feminine healing and expansion, we realize that we have been settling for less than what we actually want. You may like “Why You Don’t Have What You Want”.

We develop a stronger, higher sense of self worth, and we allow ourselves to desire to have more in our lives. 

We let ourselves dream a little, of what we actually want and what that looks and feels like.

Then, we seem to forget one “little” detail. 

We aren’t there yet.

I mean, our energy is not there yet, therefore, what we want CANNOT exist in our current reality.

Our energy does not yet match up to the vibrational equivalent of that life, or that want.

So now what?

How do we reach that energetic level?

Radical self acceptance.

We have to accept that we are going to need to bridge the gap.

How?

By allowing ourselves to have needs, and giving ourselves grace in meeting them.

By not self-shaming ourselves for having needs that need to be met.

By understanding you can’t access the higher vibrational “you” until you gently walk yourself there, by taking care of your needs along the way. 

At some point, we will outgrow them. 

We will feel confident on our own, without “needing” something to validate ourselves or help us along the journey.

That is when you will feel energetic expansion.

That is when you “uplevel”  your vibration and state of being.

That is when you are able to access and receive in the “want”.

When what you want is not what you need, it takes raw self honesty and radical self acceptance to meet your needs that will expand and grow you to the next level.  

Never give up on your heart’s desires.

The goal is just to let yourself take your time in getting there and give yourself what you need to bridge the gap, until you are on the other side. 

You may also like to read “The Dark Side of Feminine Energy” and “The Truth About Shadows, Darkness, and Your Ego”.

If you are ready to dive deeper into your personal expansion journey, click the link below to learn more and connect with me.

Lovingly,

Suze

I Am Ready To Have the Life I Want

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