Rise Into Your True Power
Hello, Lovely,
There is something I need to get off my chest today–why I am not a feminist.
My past is full of being a completely disempowered woman–I settled for less, self sabotaged myself, allowed disrespect, had no boundaries, didn’t speak up for myself, and was your classic codependent. I didn’t feel “good enough” or worthy enough.
It’s been an interesting journey from that person to the woman now who’s entire existence revolves around women’s empowerment. In the beginning, I bought into some of the mindset and beliefs around feminism, in a desire to set myself free and to feel confident. But it never actually seemed to really help me. I still was unhappy, confused, depressed, and deeply dissatisfied. It was supposed to make me feel like an “independent woman”, but when I slowed down enough to really get honest with myself, I knew something was off. There was a little voice inside me that whispered, “I should feel better than this.”
I believe that feminism started off with all the right intentions, but then went very wrong and is now hurting women more than it is helping.
Here’s why I am not a feminist…
It has depleted women because we feel like we have to do it all, instead of collaborating with men and using our differences to work harmoniously together.
It has caused resentment in women because we then think that men are incapable, which forces us into “having to do it all.”
It has brought depression to women because we are trying to live a life that is not aligned with who we truly are.
It leads to dissatisfaction because we know we want more of something, and something just feels “wrong” with life.
It makes us feel alone because we need connection, but it actually promotes disconnection.
It wrecks havoc in our relationships with men because it takes away their masculinity and then we wonder why men won’t “step up”.
These are the biggest reasons why I am not a feminist. I believe in femininity, a.k.a. feminine energy.
Since I have shifted out of feminism and into femininity, I have created a life that has deep meaning and purpose, attracted in a masculine soul connection, healed traumas, and felt more real and alive than ever.
The irony is that feminism tries to erase the “need” for men, and yet it was with femininity that I no longer had that “need”. I always felt that I was “lacking” or “something was wrong with me” if I didn’t have a man in my life, when I was in the feminist state of mind. It was feminine energy which finally allowed me to feel whole and complete on my own, so that I deeply DESIRED a man, but I didn’t NEED a man.
Being in this state of being allows women to rise to their fullest potential–inspiring men to rise in their masculinity and be all that they were intended to be as well.
Femininity (feminine energy) is the answer to our problems–both for men and women.
This is why I am not a feminist.
If you landed here and are reading this, you are being called to surrender to your femininity. I invite you to click on the link below to learn more.
Sincerely Yours,
Suze