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Femininity Is Power

Hello, Lovely,
It’s been a long and twisted journey, but it has all led me to realize that femininity is power. And for anyone who knows my story, it’s crazy to think that this is where I have landed. 

I grew up in an unusual situation that led to be be an extreme self-reliant. 

I trusted no one, often came across as “too much” or “too blunt”. I never asked for anything from anyone, and instead, expected the world from myself. I pushed and hustled and made my life happen, all by myself. I always found a way to solve my problems, without any outside help. 

I developed extraordinary skills of reading people and then bringing out the version of me that I knew they needed to see, in order for my survival and acceptance. 

I prided myself on my “poker face”–I could be having an absolute internal emotional apocalypse and NO ONE would ever know. 

Until one day, I realized I wasn’t able to create connections–real, meaningful connections. 

I felt deeply sad, misunderstood, and rejected because deep inside myself, I knew that I wanted to feel feminine, and my life had taught me that I couldn’t be that because it is “soft”. 

My life from those days to present day is drastically different. I have learned that being in my femininity is power. 

My highest power.

Being “soft” and feeling my emotions can be extremely powerful because in the end, I always get to choose which direction I want to take. 

I can use my emotions as a tool for guidance to find the path that my soul wants me to take. 

I can use my emotions to deeply connect and have the fulfilling relationships that my heart desires. 

I can use my emotions to respect myself and my truth to create boundaries and feel high self worth. (See my Love Letter “The Irony of Self Worth”.)

I can use my emotions to vulnerably communicate and inspire others to rise to their higher selves. 

I can use my emotions to know if someone/something is right for me or not. 

I can use my emotions to make decisions that empower me, instead of self sabotaging.

I can use my emotions to validate myself, instead of looking for external validation. 

I can use my emotions to free myself from negative and limiting ideas around food.

It is in learning to create safety for myself to see and feel all my emotions that I learned to finally trust myself to create a life that is authentic, instead of needing to hide behind my “poker face” or my people-pleasing chameleon. 

The bottom line is this–I have never felt more strong, more confident, more powerful, more clear, more connected, more calm, and more knowing as I do now that I embrace the fact that femininity is power.(See my Love Letter, “How Can Feminine Energy Coaching Help Me?”)

Femininity allows you to radiate your truth, your value, and your highest self from your heart. 

To read more of my story and learn more about how I got here, I invite you to click the link below. 

And, as always, I would love to hear your story. Reach out when you feel led. 

 

Sincerely Yours,
Suze

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The Wounded Feminine & The Awakened Feminine

Foundations for Conscious Partnerships

the wounded feminine and the awakened feminine

Hello, Lovely,
It has been exciting for me to watch women waking up over the past few years, and I feel that we really need to have a clear view of the wounded feminine and the awakened feminine if we are to grow into the women that we desire to be and have the lives our souls are calling us to. 

The wounded feminine is the woman who has not yet had the healing she deeply needs. She struggles with low self worth, people-pleasing, codependency, lack of boundaries, over-giving, self sacrificing, and shutting down/running away.She does not have a clear knowing of what she wants. She varies between not speaking up for herself, and exploding with anger/overwhelm. She often feels chaotic, overwhelmed, ungrounded, unsafe, frantic, and anxious. She does not practice self acceptance, so she is constantly feeling into others and needing validation and acceptance from those around her. She is constantly in a state of reacting to life, instead of creating her life. 

 She finds her value in her relationships, instead of knowing her own, inherent value. This causes her to settle for a life that ultimately makes her feel heavy, exhausted, resentful, purposeless, overwhelmed, confused, dissatisfied, and often, depressed.

The awakened feminine is doing her healing work and is always looking for growth and expansion. She is crystal clear on what she wants and what is unacceptable to her. She communicates vulnerably and powerfully to create connection, or to set and maintain boundaries. She takes responsibility for herself so that she feels powerful enough to create the life she desires. She knows how to create a safe space for herself to see and feel deeply. She knows her value and has no tolerance for anyone who does not treat her accordingly. She trust her intuition intensely and does not need any outside validation. She feels calm, stable, clear, knowing, and open. She embodies her queen, goddess, and warrior energies to feel free, confident, and fully empowered. She is actively creating her life, and being led by her soul. 

She would rather be alone than in relationships that do not value her. This allows her to attract a soul connection with an awakened masculine where they create a deeply conscious partnership that grows together and feels incredibly harmonious.

Understanding the wounded feminine and the awakened feminine is the starting point for anyone who is on a journey to create a life that feels authentic and purposeful. 

I invite you to click on the link below to learn more about my feminine energy coaching. I would love to hear your story and support you in expanding into your awakened feminine (Divine Feminine). 

Sincerely Yours,
Suze

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