Tag: authenticity

Hello, Lovely,
Years ago, I found a little voice inside me asking, “Who am I?” This voice got louder and louder until I couldn’t ignore it anymore and I was willing to change radically and try things I had never done before to find the answer. 

It was the beginning of my life because I was finally actually living life by my own rules, instead of the ones that had been imposed upon me. I was sick and tired of doing all the things I was “supposed” to do, because it did NOT bring me the happiness that I had been promised. 

Taking the steps to answer this question requires you to throw out a lot of old things. You must forget what you have been told previously in order to listen to what is your truth. No one knows you better than you.

You must be willing to slow down and listen to any little “nudge” that you feel to move in any direction. This requires releasing any judgment, or any assumption, or any belief about how something is, or how you are going to feel about it. You never know until you try something how it will actually feel to you. Anything that comes across your path and you feel a sense of curiosity about it, try it! 

You must allow yourself to remember those things that used to interest you or excite you when you were younger. As we get older, we tend to “give up” on the things that we used to want because life becomes hard. Life may seem like it “teaches” us that those things we thought we wanted when we were younger or the things that we used to like are “unrealistic” or “childish.” Sometimes we tell ourselves that we “don’t have time for that anymore.” But these things are the clues, the breadcrumbs, that lead you back to who you are. 

You already know who you are, you just have forgotten, because, life. 

Whatever comes up, whatever you realize, whatever you see, no matter how painful, choose to keep going. You are choosing you. It doesn’t have to all make sense yet, but there will come a time when it definitely will. 

As you follow this, you will start to really get excited about the things that feel really good and you will start to feel empowered and clear to create a life that feels deeply authentic. 

This is when confidence starts kicking in, and it may feel a little easier to keep going. 

Answering the question, “Who am I?” is challenging, yet deeply rewarding work. It is the first step that will lead you to knowing exactly what you actually want in your life. This clarity will then enable you to focus on magnetizing what you want into your life. 

I am currently opening enrollment into my 8-week program that will guide you step-by-step into this process of having what you want. It all begins with you choosing to Be Your Own Ultimate Lover. 

Click the link below for more details and to join.

Sincerely Yours,
Suze