Masculine Energy is Heavy
Hello, Lovely,
The question, “Am I stuck in my masculine energy?” is such a great question. It shows me that you are probably starting out on a journey that will allow you to see yourself in a whole new way, and empower you to live your life with more confidence, clarity, and authenticity.
A lot of the women that I work with have a similar background story (and this was my story too). We have had a life experience that taught us that in order to be successful in life–personally and professionally–we needed to work hard, and use logic to solve problems and make decisions. We were taught that being emotional made us “weak” and that women were not respected if they appeared “emotional”. We were masters at creating lists, getting things done, organization, and fixing things. We preferred to feel in control to feel good. We prided ourselves on “figuring things out”, and “making things happen.” We were very driven and expected a lot from ourselves, even if it meant working ourselves into exhaustion. We wanted to feel like we were accomplishing all the things and doing all the things on our lists.
The problem with this is that many of us reached a place where we realized we were burnt out, and felt resentful. We felt upset that it felt like we were the only ones who were “doing all the things”. Professionally, it felt like we were pushing so hard to make things happen and we were barely getting the results that we felt we had earned. It felt like if we took a break for a moment, that all the work that we had invested into it would collapse. In our personal lives, we were unsatisfied in our relationships. We wanted our men to step up more, and make us feel more important/seen/loved. We ultimately got to a place of resentment, hopelessness, and complete withdrawal from our relationships. We felt lost, miserable, confused, and angry.
This is a woman completely stuck in her masculine. She doesn’t even know that another approach to life exists. No one has shown her that being a woman means living life in her body and not her head. We were not created to move through life like men.
So here we are again at the question–“Am I stuck in my masculine energy?” Well, let me ask you this. Do you often feel very heavy, very confused, tired, frustrated? Do you struggle with overthinking, overanalyzing? Does making decisions make you feel so confused and stressed out because you are trying to figure out all the possible angles before coming to a conclusion? Are you tired of trying to make things happen that just don’t seem to be happening? Are you sick of having to always be the one to do the things? Do you feel like your man doesn’t do enough? Do you deny/push aside your feelings? If you answered yes to all or any of those, you are most likely stuck in your masculine.
I specialize in helping women let go of the weight that comes with masculine energy, so that they can be free and light in their feminine energy.
I invite you to reach out and share your story with me, or click the link below to learn more about my feminine energy coaching.
Sincerely Yours,
Suze