Commitment & Devotion
Hello, Lovely,
Why you don’t feel satisfied in your relationship is because both you and your partner have commitment issues.
Let me elaborate.
I think it’s kind of unfair that most of the time, men have to take the heat for commitment issues.
I think the issue goes a lot deeper than just that.
I also think we need to re-define commitment.
There is a big difference between a man who SAYS he is committed to you and a man who is so deeply devoted to you that you have no question that he is committed to you.
Also on this note, YOU will NOT be able to fully commit to a man who only commits to you with his words and not his actions. This feminine commitment is on the level of full body, heart, and soul level commitment. The level of commitment that you trust your man so deeply that you fully surrender yourself to him. You allow him to lead, and you no release the “need” to control or manipulate. You stand by him, no matter what.
When a feminine is committed to her masculine at this level of total commitment, she is able to embody a level of softness and surrender towards him that inspires him to shower unconditional love back on her. For more on this, please see “The Truth About Softness”.
But here is the catch…
A feminine woman cannot allow herself to surrender at that level unless she feels that it is safe.
And when she cannot be in that space, she will always be craving a deeper connection in the relationship, which, unless something changes, leads her down a path of feeling unsatisfied in the relationship.
So how does she feel safe?
The masculine man has to earn her trust. Trust is not earned with words. Trust is proven by actions.
And when I say “actions”, I mean, deeply inspired, consistent, and purposeful.
If you are resonating with this message, you really appreciate my article, “A Woman Never Forgets”.
Until a man starts proving, over and over, endlessly and tirelessly, that he is totally devoted to her, she cannot surrender and find the connection that her heart desires.
It’s not about getting married or verbally committing to each other.
It’s about being the trenches of life and having a man show up for you, over and over.
It’s about being at your “worst” and your man never leaves your side.
It’s about growing in your journey and having your man growing as best he can along side you.
It’s about being vulnerable about your wounds and fears and working together to rise into higher versions of yourselves.
It’s about a man that is so devoted to being with you, and exclusively you, that he is willing to do the work to feel worthy of you.
Women hold all the power. We have just forgotten.
We have just allowed ourselves to settle for men who weren’t truly committed to us.
And when we settle for that dynamic, we will always feel unsatisfied in the relationship, because we will always be wanting a deeper connection.
This kind of commitment and connection is an ever-growing, ever-deepening process.
This is why we think the “honeymoon phase” is just temporary. It actually doesn’t have to be. The connection just needs to continue to grow and deepen.
Why you don’t feel satisfied in your relationship is because it takes 2 to tango on the commitment dance floor.
It’s an endless circle of Love, commitment, and devotion between the 2 partners.
The masculine proves himself worthy of the surrender of the feminine. This circles back to him, driving him deeper into love and devotion for her, which makes her feel more deeply connected and safe to be even more vulnerable and surrendered to his leadership.
And on and on it goes.
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Warmly,
Suze