Why It Is Important To Claim Responsibility In Relationships

Hello Lovely,
Today let’s talk about why it is important to claim responsibility in your relationships.

This topic has so much to it that I have been writing a few blogs on it. You may want to start with reading “Owning Your Own Shit”. 

We live in a world where we blame the other person. If something is not going well, it is so easy to point out what the other person is doing “wrong”, and complain to our friends about it.

It has gotten so prevalent, that we do not even see how far from the Truth it has gotten us. 

Women blame men; men blame women, and everyone is unhappy. 

But let’s go into the energetics of all this.

When we blame someone else, it actually feels very disempowering, because we are then placing ourselves in a limited world where we “need” someone else to change or do something  differently.

And how does that actually feel?

It makes us feel powerless, hopeless, and stuck. We are “dependent” on someone else and have lost all the power over our own manifestations. 

How is that every going to create our Epic Love Story?

How is that ever going to make us feel confident, expansive, and free?

The only solution that I have found is to start claiming responsibility, a.k.a. take your power back. 

And there is another benefit that is not acknowledged enough…

The reason why it is important to claim responsibility in relationships is because it actually makes you more valuable in relationship. 

When you take responsibility for your part of any problem in a relationship, we are recognizing that you have the power to change the entire dynamic. 

You are taking the leadership role of moving the relationship into a more expanded place. 

You are doing your part to make it better. 

You are willing to make changes to support the higher good of the relationship/collective. 
(Unity Consciousness). This organically raises the vibration of yourself and the relationship dynamic. 

Clearly, all this holds incredible value.

You are taking the time to dig deeper to find self expansion.

You are bringing solutions to the table by shifting/healing yourself. 

You recognize your power, and you embrace the “rules” of self mastery. 

The reason why it is important to claim responsibility in relationships is because in so doing, you are doing your part to affect the change in the world that you see it needs. 

It only takes one person to start a domino effect of change, healing, growth, and higher vibration. 

Blaming everyone else fixes nothing, accept soothing the ego and staying small in our comfort zones. 

Taking responsibility embraces change, leadership, and growth. 

Suze