When It Is Toxic

Toxic

 

Narcissist

 

Something about the “toxic” culture didn’t sit right with me. My intuition told me something was off and I needed to investigate.

 

So I decided to get into my experimenting mode (i am a 3/5 in human design ).

 

After a lifetime of running from relationships the moment they turned “toxic”, I decided to stay, and something happened that I was NOT expecting.

 

Whenever a “toxic” situation would come up, I would walk away and bring my attention back to myself (very difficult if you have an anxious attachment style, but it’s the only path to taking your power back, and simultaneously healing your anxiety!)

 

What is another perspective that I could view this situation from? (A perspective that saw positivity in a “negative” situation)

 

How did I contribute to the mess?

 

What wound/past story was triggered?

 

What was the wounded me needing and asking for (in a rather ugly way!)

 

How do I meet these needs? (Boundaries or connection)

 

Now that I know my truth in the situation, how can I heal and shift myself, so that I can show up differently next time?

 

Because if I show up differently, the outcome has a chance at being different!

 

Taking responsibility for YOU is more impactful that you may think.

 

I was originally doing this to have a healthier relationship, but what ended up happening was my self worth, standards, and confidence skyrocketed.

 

I knew my high value in being able to shift myself, without my external life changing at all.

 

This is true power. Personal power.

 

I hate this “toxic” culture we got going on. Yes, there are toxic people and narcissists do exist.

 

But a lot of the time, that’s the easy cop-out of doing the SELF work and learning how to get more vulnerable, honest, and emotionally available to YOURSELF.

 

It’s the culturally acceptable escape reason for running from YOURSELF and not doing what needs to be done inside YOU.

 

The moment you realize that True Love is learning to do your end to heal yourself, is the moment that you start to realize your True Self and potential.

 

You can have it all.

 

But you have to choose all of you first.

 

My work with women is different because I empower you to know YOUR needs, listen to YOUR intuition and follow YOUR heart, instead of listening to the outside world who is measuring your relationship to THEIR sense of reality, identity, values, wants, and needs. This is my superpower as a Projector…my aura penetrates your energy and sees the real you by feeling how your energy responds to my questions and insights.

 

It’s all just energy. And once I show you that, it all becomes a lot simpler.

 

Time to fall in love with all the magic you hold inside you, and unlock your Epic Love Story.

 

Reach out by clicking the link below when you’re ready to either start this journey, or take it deeper into your Truth.