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The Problem With Being Turned On

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the problem with being turned on

Hello Lovely,
The problem with being “turned on”…

In my last post, I wrote about what it means for a woman to be “turned on” and that it is a lot more than just sex. ( You can reference it here, “When A Woman Is Turned On.”)
 
A women who is turned on draws attention (aka energy).
 
This is the most basic power of feminine energy—to attract and receive energy.
 
But when the attention is negative, women often quiet themselves down. (Aka dim their light, shut down, withdraw, literally turning themselves off).
 
Letting your light shine and choosing to not dim down is choosing to remain in the state of turned on, because you understand this state is necessary for you to receive your Epic Life, and Epic Love Story.
 
it is especially challenging when you are turned on, and you think you are receiving negative attention from your man. (Again, I am not talking about sex at this time. See previous post).
 
It can be triggering to a man to see you have attention/energy drawn to you.
 
So then the questions are…
 
Are you afraid of “losing” him, so you shut down and dim your light, in order to “keep” him?
 
Do you emasculate him because you think he is being “controlling”?
 
Or do you choose to hold the space for him?
 
What if holding the space could create expansion for you BOTH while also creating deeper emotional safety & connection in your partnership?
 
This is where the Divine Feminine holds all her magic–in allowing herself to stayed turned on and lit up, no matter what. She holds the space for her masculine to rise up and meet her there. 

And to read more on this Epic Love Story, you may like to reference, “What Epic Love Requires.”

Also, “Epic Love”.

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-heart space to reveal your Epic Love Story. 

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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