A Man Big Enough for All of You
Hello, Lovely,
The capacity to hold space & how it relates to men is another stop on our journey of holding space.
I know many of you have been waiting for this one!
It is a subject that I am passionate about, because so many of us have so much healing that we have been and are working on around men/masculine energy.
So many women have and are walking away from relationships that were toxic and completely unaligned.
We want a deep, meaningful connection.
We want passion and desire.
We want to feel seen and accepted.
We want to feel claimed by a Divine Masculine.
My intention with this article today, “The Capacity of Holding Space, and How it Relates to Men (Masculine Energy)”, is to help you more quickly identify a man who is on the path of the Divine Masculine.
No one is perfectly and totally healed, so no one will be able to show up perfectly all the time, but there should be some foundational level of work apparent that can be built on.
For the group of women that I am speaking to, you are already very aware of how you have shut down your emotions in the past to make others more comfortable.
You probably have been labeled as “too much”, or “too sensitive”, or “too emotional”, or “crazy.”
You may have created a narrative in your head that says that you are difficult to love.
If this is you, and you are finally now accepting your emotions and letting yourself be fully aware of them, you will need a man who can support this.
A man who has a high capacity of holding space.
What does this look like?
A man who can see you at your most emotional “mess” self, and be calm.
He does not judge your “mess”.
He does not try to fix your “mess”.
He does not disagree with you and tell you that you should not feel that way.
He does not try to control the chaos of your emotions.
He sees them, right along with you, and is a calm, safe space where you can calm down.
He offers comfort, reassurance, and stability.
He does not push you away or come down hard on you.
This is a man with a high capacity of holding space for your feminine energy.
The turbulent waters of your feminine energy will calm themselves down in the safe container that he holds steady for you.
So next time you are feeling emotionally chaotic, notice how the man in your life responds…
Does he make the emotional storm worse for you?
Or does he respond calmly, accepting you and loving you through it until you find stable ground?
The capacity of holding space and how it relates to men is super important on the journey of embodying your higher, Divine Feminine self.
You will not be able to feel the level of freedom that you desire without understanding and integrating this.
For more on the capacity of holding space, see “The Capacity to Hold Space & Radical Acceptance”.
And if you are ready for deep support and guidance on your personal empowerment journey, I am accepting invitations from new clients for 1:1 coaching with me.
Click the link below to learn more and connect with me.
Lovingly,
Suze