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When You Don’t Know What To Do

Post author By Inhale Love with Suze
Post date April 8, 2023

Foundations for Your Epic Love Story

Hello Lovely,
I would like to offer some hard-learned wisdom if you are feeling lost, suffering, confused, and/or when you don’t know what to do…

If you want something different, you have to be/do something different.

If you want something you have never had before, you have to be/do something you’ve never done before.

If you want something to stop, you have to stop participating in it.

If you want a new beginning, you have to step into a new you.

If you want change, you have to change.

But none of this is possible without the first step…

You have to decide on what you want!

Make the decision and keep putting one foot in front of the other.

Stop questioning yourself.

Keep moving in the direction of your decision.

Don’t give up on your decision.

Focus only on the things that support your decision.

Think only on things that support your decision.

Reject anything and any thought that does not align with your decision.

You just have to make the decision.

And stick to it.

Decide to change your life.

Decide on what you want.

When you don’t know what to do, you just need to make the decision.

And it’s yours.

(And if you struggle with making a decision, you have a distorted relationship with your masculine energy. More on that later…)

If you want Epic Love, you have to choose to be Epic.

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-hearted space to reveal your Epic Love Story.

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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The Truth About Pain

Post author By Inhale Love with Suze
Post date April 8, 2023

Foundations for Your Epic Love Story

Hello Lovely,
The truth about pain is that it is an opportunity to lead you back to you. The true you. The sovereign you. The balanced you. The whole you.

And…

Will you allow yourself to go there?

Are you fed up enough with repeating cycles that you say you do not want?

Are you sick of being held back from what you truly want?

Have you had enough of your own shit?

The truth about pain is that it holds the opportunity for you to crumble into it, or to rise from it.

Your purpose, your soul mission, your reason for being here is hidden in the pain.

Because the deeper the space you learn to hold for yourself in the depths of your pain, the bigger the space you are able to hold for others in return.

You were brought here for epic magnificence.

It is hidden in the epic pain.

This is the truth about pain.

If you want Epic Love, you have to choose to be Epic.

You may also like to read, “Finding Power In Pain. “

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-hearted space to reveal your Epic Love Story.

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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Preparing For Epic Love In 2023

Post author By Inhale Love with Suze
Post date April 7, 2023

Foundations for Your Epic Love Story

Hello Lovely,
As we move into the new astrological year, I wanted to give some insights for preparing for Epic Love in 2023.

I have seen a common theme in the past week with the feminines (myself included), and feel a sense of urgency to bring this message public.

In just a few days—March 20th—not only is it the spring equinox, but it is also the first day of the new astrological year. (Aries)

Many feminines are going through a review, feeling nostalgic, or revisiting old triggers that we thought we had closed out and healed.

Be very careful of what you accept into your reality. If someone is re-triggering something, or bringing up something that you thought you had moved on from, do not accept this old wound back into your reality.

You do not want to carry these old patterns/loops/beliefs into the new year with you!!

Validate yourself out loud! “I do not accept this into my reality.”

Use these last few days to write out mantras and affirmations of what you DO accept in the new year, and what you ARE going to embody.

Make written agreements with yourself about your standards in the new year, and what is required for you to engage your energy in any person/situation, moving forward.

Get clear on what your boundaries are, so that you can SUPPORT your higher sense of self worth and standards.

Do not bring the old with you into the new year.

Use the past to remind and celebrate yourself —what you have learned, how much you have grown, and your higher self worth/value.

I see you

I love you

Everything is going to be ok

It is all working out for you.

I hope this was helpful in preparing you for Epic Love in 2023!

If you want Epic Love, you have to choose to be Epic.

You may also like to read, “Epic Love”.

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-hearted space to reveal your Epic Love Story.

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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Epic Love Requires Sacrifice

Post author By Inhale Love with Suze
Post date March 16, 2023

Foundations for Your Epic Love Story

Hello Lovely,
Most people do not choose Epic Love, because Epic Love requires sacrifice.

The sacrifice of being normal, staying in your comfort zone, being unnoticed, being emotionally closed off, and following the accepted norms.

Because Epic love requires you to be someone you have never been before.

Epic love makes you be ALL that you are, which may feel “too much” or “too intense” for a lot of people.

Epic Love requires you to be the real, raw, unfiltered you.

Epic Love makes you be bigger (energetically), and take up more space in the world, which triggers control issues in others.

Epic Love requires you to fully wake up and blindly follow the path of your soul, in a world that follows the most logical path.

Epic love will break open your heart bigger than ever before, which means you feel it ALL, in a world that promotes numbing, escaping, and distracting.

Epic love makes you be more vibrantly YOU, which means you often will attract attention because you are being different than the others.

Epic love makes your self worth skyrocket, which may mean your circle of friends becomes smaller.

Epic love births deep humility, which means that most people will misunderstand you and judge you.

Epic love makes you come alive, in a world that limits us to normal and “supposed to”.

Epic Love requires sacrifice. The Sacrifice of who you thought you had to be to be “accepted” or “loved”.

But in choosing this sacrifice, you are reborn.

You are Free.

If you want Epic Love, you have to choose to be Epic.

You may also like to read, “Epic Love”.

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-hearted space to reveal your Epic Love Story.

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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Why It Is Important To Claim Responsibility In Relationships

Post author By Inhale Love with Suze
Post date March 13, 2023

Foundations for Your Epic Love Story

Hello Lovely,
Today let’s talk about why it is important to claim responsibility in your relationships.

This topic has so much to it that I have been writing a few blogs on it. You may want to start with reading “Owning Your Own Shit”.

We live in a world where we blame the other person. If something is not going well, it is so easy to point out what the other person is doing “wrong”, and complain to our friends about it.

It has gotten so prevalent, that we do not even see how far from the Truth it has gotten us.

Women blame men; men blame women, and everyone is unhappy.

But let’s go into the energetics of all this.

When we blame someone else, it actually feels very disempowering, because we are then placing ourselves in a limited world where we “need” someone else to change or do something differently.

And how does that actually feel?

It makes us feel powerless, hopeless, and stuck. We are “dependent” on someone else and have lost all the power over our own manifestations.

How is that every going to create our Epic Love Story?

How is that ever going to make us feel confident, expansive, and free?

The only solution that I have found is to start claiming responsibility, a.k.a. take your power back.

And there is another benefit that is not acknowledged enough…

The reason why it is important to claim responsibility in relationships is because it actually makes you more valuable in relationship.

When you take responsibility for your part of any problem in a relationship, we are recognizing that you have the power to change the entire dynamic.

You are taking the leadership role of moving the relationship into a more expanded place.

You are doing your part to make it better.

You are willing to make changes to support the higher good of the relationship/collective.
(Unity Consciousness). This organically raises the vibration of yourself and the relationship dynamic.

Clearly, all this holds incredible value.

You are taking the time to dig deeper to find self expansion.

You are bringing solutions to the table by shifting/healing yourself.

You recognize your power, and you embrace the “rules” of self mastery.

The reason why it is important to claim responsibility in relationships is because in so doing, you are doing your part to affect the change in the world that you see it needs.

It only takes one person to start a domino effect of change, healing, growth, and higher vibration.

Blaming everyone else fixes nothing, accept soothing the ego and staying small in our comfort zones.

Taking responsibility embraces change, leadership, and growth.

If you resonated with this message, you may also like to read,“When Vulnerability Is Not Enough.”

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-heart space to reveal your Epic Love Story.

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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When Vulnerability Is Not Enough

Post author By Inhale Love with Suze
Post date March 13, 2023

Foundations for Your Epic Love Story

Hello Lovely,
When vulnerability is not enough, things start to get interesting…

I started learning something in the past year…

When I finally allowed myself to speak up and be vulnerable, it is really devastating when the other person does not recognize the bleeding of my heart and my call for connection and healing.

So then my reaction would be anger…

Because feminine anger always comes from a place of feeling unloved.

It is not that I am actually unloved. It is that my past experiences taught me that I am not loved when my vulnerability is not supported and protected.

I would feel shame, deep disappointment in not feeling seen, and anger in feeling completely invalidated.

This then would generate a new toxic cycle with myself where I would feel emotionally unsafe.

But then it all started shifting for me when I realized that people don’t always know when you’re being painfully vulnerable, and trying to do it all differently, than you have done it before.

When vulnerability is not enough, we need to see it as an opportunity to go deeper, instead of blaming the other for not seeing us.

They don’t always know when you are intentionally trying to recreate a new version of yourself and show up in a new way, and how hard your internal struggle is.

Sometimes what feels like a huge deal to you because of your life’s experience, doesn’t feel like such a bug deal to someone else, so they simply don’t recognize the amount of courage you gathered to communicate something.

So when you choose to step outside your comfort zone and get vulnerable, there is a significant need to feel seen and safe in your vulnerability.

If the other person does not recognize that this is a huge, scary moment of vulnerability, they may not respond in the way that would be really healing and helpful, and this could potentially turn into more trauma, build resentment, and destroy trust and safety in the relationship.

So the solution?

❤️Take more radical responsibility for your own healing.

❤️Humble yourself and go even deeper into vulnerability.

If you choose to step outside your comfort zone and communicate something really scary and vulnerable, choose to validate yourself out loud as you do it.

“This is really hard for me to talk about and I am really going outside my comfort zone with this…”

If you are speaking to someone who is good for you and truly loves you, this will help then know that this is a moment where they really need to step up and support your healing.

We need to stop the blame game and find better ways of emotionally connecting and getting the healing we need.

People are at different stages of their emotional development…let’s help everyone involved by being more humble, clear, and compassionate in our communication.

If you resonated with this message, you may like to read, “Epic Love” .

Another great read is “Owning Your Own Shit.”

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-heart space to reveal your Epic Love Story.

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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What If Everything We Ever Wanted

Post author By Inhale Love with Suze
Post date March 13, 2023

Foundations for Your Epic Love Story

Hello Lovely,
What if everything we ever wanted is on the other side of the trigger?

What if the next step of expansion is to stop running from the trigger?

What might be possible if we choose to stay and see the trigger as an opportunity to embraced, so that we can take our power back & finally close out the trigger and it’s self-limiting/self-sabotaging patterns/addictions?

What if the freedom we long for is on the other side of the trigger?

What if the stability we crave is found within, when we choose to stand tall in the storm, choose not avoid/abandon the self, choose not to blame the other, choose to take responsibility, choose to create a new energetic pathway, and choose to self validate OUT LOUD?

What if everything we ever wanted is on the other side of the trigger and every time we run, we run from everything we ever wanted?

If you resonated with this message, you may like to read, “Epic Love” .

Another great read is “Owning Your Own Shit.”

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-heart space to reveal your Epic Love Story.

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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Owning Your Own Shit

Post author By Inhale Love with Suze
Post date March 13, 2023

Foundations for Your Epic Love Story

Hello Lovely,
It is becoming more and and more clear to me that the secret to growth in relationships is owning your own shit…

Two years and five months ago, this man quite literally walked into my life.

I was not looking for a boyfriend, and he was not looking for a girlfriend.

In the human perspective, it was the worst possible time for me to start a new relationship.

In the twisted sense of humor that Spirit has, it was the most “perfect” time.

In our very first conversation, I experienced an energetic connection that I had not experienced before.

It felt calm. Comfortable. Safe.

I felt attraction, but no nervous excitement, like usually happened when I met a guy.

And there was something about his eyes…

Looking back, it has been the most challenging, heartbreaking, life-changing, growth-inducing, messy, and healing relationship of my life. It has been Epically difficult, and I still cannot wrap my head around some of the insane challenges that have been thrown at us.

At the same time, it has been the most Epically profound, telepathic, soul-connected, unconditionally loving, radically accepting, raw, and real relationship of my life.

The biggest thing that I have learned out of it is that women subconsciously sabotage and block themselves from receiving the Epic Love that they desire.

The more you are willing to put yourself in the hot seat of owning your own shit, the more you free yourself to manifest the Love your heart desires.

It is in the ownership that you hold ALL your power. You see how your past stories with men (and conditioning) have created all these belief systems that sabotage EVERYTHING and affect everything you do/think/see/react.

You see how you protect yourself from the very thing you want, because you have not learned how to trust yourself and your intuition, NO MATTER WHAT anyone else says.

You develop a self worth that gives you the strength to claim what is yours, and hold the space (faith & trust) between what your current physical reality is showing you, and what you know (in your heart) is possible.

If you want Epic, you have to choose to be Epic.

You hold all the power.

Are you ready? Let me know when you are.

If you resonated with this message, you may like to read, “Epic Love”.

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-heart space to reveal your Epic Love Story.

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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I Am With Love

Post author By Inhale Love with Suze
Post date February 20, 2023

Foundations for Your Epic Love Story

Hello Lovely,
Today I would like to share with you a moving mudra…”I am with Love.”

Find a comfortable seat and place your hands, palms up, in your lap.

Connect your thumb to each finger on your hand.

Speak 1 word as you touch each finger to make the phrase…

With

Love

Repeat at least 3 times.

Breathe in the Love and feel your heart expand.

Exhale fully to release any stress.

Repeat as many times as necessary in your day to realign back to Love and remember that “I am with Love.”

If you resonated with this message, you may like to read, “Epic Love”.

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-heart space to reveal your Epic Love Story.

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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Self-Sufficiency Blocks Your Epic Love Story

Post author By Inhale Love with Suze
Post date February 20, 2023

Foundations for Your Epic Love Story

Hello Lovely,
Have you ever realized that self-sufficiency blocks your Epic Love Story?

Being overly self-sufficient is a limiting belief because it limits you to only take on things that you know you can handle on your own without any help.

What might be possible if allowed yourself to take on things that you know would require collaboration/partnership? (Freedom energy)

How might this expand you and your life experience? (Abundance energy)

What new life skills could it teach you?

(Humility energy)

What opportunities have you declined because it could potentially involve collaboration? (Intimacy energy)

Being overly self-sufficient is a closed-hearted space that limits us from our fullest expression because we miss out on the joy & bliss of connection.

The deeper you allow yourself to be feminine and rise in your Divine Feminine self, you will see how self-sufficiency blocks a man from being the masculine energy that you crave in your life.

Self-sufficiency blocks your Epic Love Story because it is a protective wall that keeps your man outside and unable to give you what your heart actually desires.

If you resonated with this message, you may like to read deeper into this subject by referencing, “What Epic Love Requires.”

Also, “Epic Love”.

Reach out by clicking the link below when you are ready to start living from this radical open-heart space to reveal your Epic Love Story.

All my love to the Divine Feminines,

Suze

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